Success is not sexually transmitted!!!

"A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step" unless you take that first step you will never know that you are able, and what holds back a lot of people is the fear of the unkown and sometimes it is ourselves that we need to overcome before attemping to climb over any obstacle before us.

I went to the mall last Saturday as i got in at Checkers i realised there were no trolleys, there were a couple of them in the parking lot as i got there, a handsome guy with a great physic was making his way towards me to of course get himself a trolley as well. I could not help but notice because he had such distincive guise, that was not the only thing i noticed though i also realised that at the entrance of the store there was a woman waiting for him, who at first i thought was his mother so as we walk from the parking lot towards the store this woman irritated and giving him an evil look she asked "is getting a trolley that hard?" he looks at her perplexed then replies "no babe i was just trying to pick the clean one" agape i was like wait a minute what did i miss? so the older woman was actually his cougar.

What's bewildering to me is that a woman dating a younger man is called a cougar, a woman dating an older man is called a golddigger but a man doing either is called a "lucky bastard" anyway yesterday i had a chat with one of my colleagues, we were talking about celebrities and their doomed relationships and she said something interesting or rather shockingly interesting as she never came across to be that kind of a person to my eyes at least " I would not mind doing an older man, however he would have it, if he has the money why not? and i get to have everything i want all i need do is just say the name, and if he's influential and he has connections it's even better, because there's no place i would not enter"

Beauty only gets the attention which is temporally, a good character stays in people's minds forever, and success is not sexually transmitted, you can never be successful because you are sleeping with someone who is, You are just living off his hardwork and behind his shadow. There's nothing as rewarding as working hard and then later enjoying the fruits of your labour with a clean and clear concious. You can be anything you set your mind to as long as you work hard at it, all it requires is consistancy, hard work and discipline you don't have to open your legs. The worst case scenario is these people mostly are married and they will never leave their spouses for you, even if they do it can only be for so long, so are you really going to trade your happiness for stability? i admit love will not bring bread to the table neither will opening your legs get you any further "Vuka uzenzela" (get up and do it yourself) all that's needed is a positive mindset sex will not get you any far. Success is a journey not a destination you don't just arrive you work towards it and someone else's success is theirs, don't you think it's high time you worked for something you would be proud of???