Reasons Why Men Won't Get Married

Have you ever wondered when will he pop the BIG Question? Ok ask no more!!!

 

We are afraid of commitment :(

Commitment means that I've decided that the woman I'm settling down with is perfect and there is no one else out there for me. Commitment means I've found my soul mate, that I am completely secure with myself, and that there should be no going back. I don't know about you, but all of that is pretty heavy. I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here. Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of us longer.

1.    Men want to enjoy the single life as long as possible, especially as they become accustomed to having their own space and routines and not being responsible to anyone else.

2.   They want to become a homeowner before they become a husband. Being established financially is an important goal many men want to achieve before they marry.

3.   Men are reluctant to marry a woman who already has children, primarily to avoid competition and conflict with the children's biological father.

4.   There are very few social pressures to marry. While their dads were pressured by religion, employers or society to settle down and say "I do," men today are free from that

5.   Men are romantics at heart. They believe in a soul mate, and they're willing to wait for her. What is a soul mate? Men define her as someone who accepts them just the way they are and does not want to change them. These men don't want to settle for second-best.

6.   Their greatest fear is that marriage will require too many changes, compromises and responsibilities. After all, it's a lot more fun to play poker with the boys all night long.

7.   Since they don't have to worry about their biological clocks, men say they want to wait until they are older to have children. They really do not want to be pressured into marriage by a woman whose primary goal is to have kids.

8.   Men want to avoid the financial risks of divorce. What better way to do that than to not get married in the first place?

9.   By living with a girlfriend, they can enjoy all the benefits of a wife without having to say, "I do." This is a no-risk way to test the idea of marriage.

10.   They can have casual sex without marriage, something that is far more common today and accepted than in generations past.